It’s December already! How did this happen? I swear it was late summer just a second ago… OK, so I have to face facts, it’s coming up to the end of the year, and I daren’t look at those “Aims for 2017” which I have pinned up on my noticeboard (they’ve been strategically hidden under a post-it note and a postcard, so I don’t have to continually beat myself up about not having achieved any of them…).
Of course, I’ll wait until the traditional ritual-shaming at the end of the month to blog in detail about this year’s failures, and to entertain you all with my next batch of unlikely ambitions for 2018. I will say though that realistic goal-setting has to be based on a suitable mix of self-knowledge and boundary-pushing. Yes, you need to push yourself to strive for that which is currently just beyond your reach, but you also have to take into account your need to turn up at the day job, or the necessity to spend time with your nearest and dearest or indeed, your desire to watch Strictly.
Writers are notoriously good at beating themselves up – either for crimes of procrastination and under-achievement, or though constant (unfavourable) comparison with others. We read lots of articles which attempt to shame us into better working/creative practices. And there is probably much truth in these (I don’t need to watch any more amusing cat or dog videos on Facebook – I know this!), but you have to extract the bits of advice that work for you.
This is why I was so amused to read Sophie Hannah’s latest blog post. As you may know, I’m a big Sophie Hannah fan, and I came across the article through following her on Goodreads (but you can find it directly from her website here). In it, she goes through the most common advice available for authors, and gives her take on the wisdom contained therein.
It’s a refreshingly down to earth (and entertaining) article, and the strongest message which comes out of it is that you have to discover a working pattern which works for you, taking into account your responsibilities, internal body clock, levels of OCD etc. For this, you need self-knowledge.
I think this on a weekday when I am rushing (always rushing – always late no matter what time I get up!) to get ready for work. And I glance longingly at my writing desk wishing that instead of the day job, I could be spending my day here. But I know full well that on my non-working days, I will find it impossible to make it to my writing desk anywhere near the time I’d make it to my work office desk. Would I be any more productive if I didn’t have a day job? I’m really not that convinced!
There’s that old adage, “if you want something done, ask a busy person” and I’m pretty sure it’s true. When you’re busy, you can shoehorn in an extra task. On a lazy day, leaving the sofa to make a cuppa can seem too onerous.
So, I shall leave beating myself up until the end of the month. In the meantime, I’ll do as much as I can. As much as I can fit in around the rest of life. Probably not any of the things on my “Aims for 2017” list – but perhaps instead achieving some things I’d not anticipated. I’ll tell you more about that in my next post. 😉